Ideal Self-Portraits

Reflecting Reality with Kindness

People who live alone can go days at a time without seeing another human in person.

Meanwhile, they'll still likely see hundreds or even thousands of people, but only on a screen, where essentially all photos are heavily filtered or perfect images of perfect people who never even existed. This gives people a warped view of reality and what people look like. When they see themselves in the mirror, it might the only unfiltered image of a person they see that whole day.

For the sake of their self-esteem, it is worthwhile to go to great lengths to make that image look as good as possible. While we should not alter the image itself, what we can do is treat it with the same honor and respect as a work of art.

What's in a Frame?

After all, what is art other than what we treat as art?

If we were to take a beautiful painting and stick it in a cheap frame, light it poorly, and cram it in a dark corner surrounded by junk, it wouldn't seem so much like a masterpiece anymore. However, if we were to take a blank canvas and frame it beautifully, light it professionally, and mount it at eye-level as the sole element on a gallery wall, it will look like art.

Presenting any image with this much reverence and thoughtfulness causes the viewer to perceive it as a work of art, even an image of themselves. For that reason, all mirrors at Cloud Nine Studios were framed, lit, and placed as though they were fine art to make each resident's perception of herself as positive as possible.

Creating an Ideal Image

For the full-length mirror, a live edge solid wood frame is not only an opportunity to introduce more natural materials to the space, but also a way to frame the image with beautiful asymmetry.

Optically, surrounding an asymmetrical image with a symmetrical border highlights and exaggerates the asymmetry—yet while all humans are asymmetrical, almost all mirror borders are symmetrical. Here, a frame where no sides match makes any asymmetry in the image between them look natural and normal.

This effect is less important in the bathroom mirror since people will often be close enough to not have the frame be in focus with themselves in their field of vision at the same time to form a cohesive image; however it is nevertheless an irregular shape with only one axis of symmetry.

More important in the bathroom is the lighting, where two different sets of dim-to-warm lights plus skylights on the top floor

the top is not symmetrical with the bottom, plus .

Background elements. Natural materials. Moss and flower art, natural stone mosaic.

The oversized mirror helps people with weight issues The massive size of the mirror allows women of all sizes to

Trauma-Informed Mirror Placement

Home design gurus tout mirrored-closet doors as the easiest way to make a room brighter and feel bigger, calling them a must for any small space.

However, many people recovering from trauma are already struggling with self-image issues, so mirrors are sources of pain / so they don't want to look at themselves all the time.

Plus, depression can cause fatigue, executive dysfunction, or feelings of worthlessness, all of which can cause people to fall behind on hygiene to the point where being forced to see themselves not looking their best can fuel a self-reinforcing cycle of negative thoughts, feelings, and actions.

For them, a giant wall of mirrors forces them to see themselves constantly, triggering a steady flow of negative thoughts about themselves.

So even though these apartments are fairly small, we did not use this very popular feature.

Had we used them here, a giant wall of mirrors would have indeed

For them, these very popular closet doors are a giant wall of negative thoughts they cannot escape.

For them, a giant wall of mirrors forces them to see themselves constantly, triggering a constant flow of negative thoughts about themselves.

leads to constant intrusive thoughts and downward emotional spirals, deregulation.

this very popular feature / forces negative, intrusive thoughts

It Just Works

As with all other features, the person using the mirror doesn't have to know any of the reasoning; the mirror's design and placement will naturally steer them to see a more ideal image of themselves. Over time, this kind self-portraiture can have a measurably positive effect on self-image and self-esteem // increase confidence and self-worth, //

Explain how I wanted to make this space right here a spot that makes the residents really happy, because when they're standing here, they're looking in the mirror and seeing themselves, and I want them to be happy when they're looking at themselves. (All arguments about mirrors, especially for people dealing with self-esteem and self-image issues after trauma.)

Now making someone happy when they stand in this spot is a tall order, especially for the people who don't exactly like looking in the mirror. I want them to look in the mirror and get used to being happy seeing themselves. And I want them to be happy standing in this spot because this is the spot where you do a lot of self-care. So this is a bit of a Skinner box, and if these people don't necessarily love themselves yet, maybe I can get them to love using this vanity.

I don't want them to love this vanity. Couldn't care less about that. I want them to love themselves. I want to create a long-term pattern of operant conditioning whereby they feel good when they see themselves, and they see themselves when they stand in this spot, and they stand in this spot to use the vanity, so I want to do everything I can to make it so they're in a good mood when they're using it. I want to design an environment that leads to that happening. The decisions I make here about what to put where, how much to spend, how much care to put into it, can ultimately affect whether people smile or frown, and I want people to smile when they stand here, because then they'll see themselves smiling. (That sounds dangerously close to patriarchal "You'd look better if you smiled more," but I think I'm safe.) And, like all the best design, it just needs to all work without anyone So I want to make sure they have as good of an experience in this spot as possible. Get those nice pressure relieving pads to stand on because they're fun to stand on and feel good in bare feet. Add custom dividers to drawers, work to really trick out the inside with organization. Hair dryer holder.

Unused

The mirrors in the apartment bathrooms should have pretty, decorative frames rather than the utilitarian frameless mirrors you'd find in a hotel.

These homes are primarily for abuse and trauma survivors, and it's hard to think of people who more deserve to feel beautiful.

So I want to make sure they have as good of an experience in this spot as possible. Get those nice pressure relieving pads to stand on because they're fun to stand on and feel good in bare feet. Add custom dividers to drawers, work with Machi to really trick out the inside with organization. Hair dryer holder. (Opposite for Haven House; they need to get in and get out.)

The Mirrors at Haven House

In Haven House, mirrored closet doors were eliminated (for TID) and custom mirrors were added to the insides of the doors, framed in a shaker style. This moved them as out of the way as possible to reduce conflict in double-occupancy rooms. Plus, the heavy mirror added significantly to the weight of the door (for perceived security, reference Saturn car case study) and the sound dampening (for privacy and sleep quality).

However, the need there is lesser because, while living in a group home, each resident will see several other real women every day.

In Haven House, all bathrooms are shared, so the bathroom mirrors were optimized for harmony, which, in a bathroom means maximizing utility and cleanliness. Having the larger, prettier, framed mirror in the bedroom encourages residents to spend more time using those rather than taking more time unnecessarily in the bathroom, as being forced to wait to use a shared bathroom is one of the most common sources of conflict in a shared living environment.

Large frameless mirrors

The layouts